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Learning to Redress Yourself

Posted on by HeatherLynn

At one point in the past, I was pushing past 400lb. mark on the scale, which meant that my clothing was not only plus-sized, but it was also super-plus-sized to accommodate the extra bulges.     I have wardrobe of clothing which reflects this very fact.    This brings me to the dilemma I now face.

My clothing is no longer suitable for the body I have now.    I’ve dropped a significant amount of weight and gone down several sizes.  This equals out to every piece of clothing I own looking baggy and unkempt when I put it on.  Shirts fall off my shoulders, pants constantly slip from my hips.  What continues to surprise me is when I pull a shirt from the realms of the dresser.  Those dark depths contain the shirts I liked but they were simply not big enough for me and I was unwilling to toss them.   I put them on now and they drape across me like a hastily hung blanket in the window.   It’s a refreshing surprise and one I am secretly loving every time it happens.     Motivation comes in all forms!

However, I had no choice but to return to the stores to rebuild a new wardrobe.

It started about four months ago, my rebuilding phase.  I held it off until then, knowing that I was still on my journey and numbers and sizes can still change.   I was clueless on my size at this point, so I decided a trip to Lane Bryant for new undergarments would be my first stop.   The ladies there took my measurements and let me know that I had indeed lost inches around the waistline, but my chest stubbornly remained the same robust size it had been for years.     With this information, I went to the local Walmart and bought a pair of inexpensive jeans, and I hit up Amazon for a few t-shirts.   It was summertime and those were the basic items that could get me by.   

What I am learning as I continue my journey is this, when it comes to your wardrobe:

1. Assess your current wardrobe. Put aside all clothing you know is way too big on you now.  Donate it or sell it.  Get it out of the house and make it so it is no longer an option.  We don’t save the close in case we get big again.  We are NOT going back.     Personally, I am hanging on to my jackets and hoodies, and a few heavier shirts for the Winter so I can layer properly.   

2. Choose correctly sized undergarments. I’m sure there is a scientific reason to do this, but I say do it because its far more comfortable.   Saggy underwear is uncomfortable and feels weird, a bra that is too big will make your shirts look lumpy.   Besides, new undergarments always make you feel good.

3. Grab essentials and staple pieces. Get a few things that will get you by.  A couple pairs of jeans, a few t-shirts, a nice dress shirt or two.   You’re still on your journey and clothing costs no matter what size you are.

4.  Look for sales.  Especially this time of the year.   Frequent the thrift shops and the discount stores.  You do not need to be spending hard earned money on clothing that is only going to be used for your transitioning period.   

5. Congratulate yourself for a job well done, but don’t stop moving, this is now your life!

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Self-Destruction and Re-Learning

Posted on by HeatherLynn

I’ve been stuck on this barren plateau for nearly two months. Its frustrating and disenheartening, but I’m the queen of self-sabotage. I’ve cheated on myself several times. I ate outside my eating window. I ate things that I knew were not healthy for me and I over indulged. I didn’t exercise willpower at the store and I doubled up on portions when I knew I should have had one. I have no excuses. I could try and justify it but those who know me would see right through the veil of disguise. I have only myself to blame. I am responsible for my actions.

Knowing this, I must start over.. How shall I do this? The hard way, of course. Re-learn the basics.

  1. Cut back on carbs
    Yes. Cut back on carbs right as Carb-Season hits. Such an easy thing to do for a girl that loves bread and pasta and potatoes. This is where the willpower is needed but often lacking.
  2. Increase exercise frequency or intensity.
    Time Change. It doesn’t matter that you gained an extra hour of sleep, it does not help because it takes at least three days for your body to figure it out. In the meantime, its dark when you get home from work. Exercise feels “wrong” when its dark, I don’t know why, it just does. Your motivation wanes with the daylight. This is when you must push yourself and find that inner strength to go to the gym or do that extra 15 minutes of exercise in your living room. Every little bit helps.
  3. Track everything you eat
    Every piece of stolen Halloween candy, every time you do a “This once won’t matter”; every taste test when you’re cooking; it all adds up. Tracking is a major pain and using the available apps helps! It does help you visualize how much you are consuming.
  4. Don’t skimp on protein
    This is unwaveringly true. Protein sustains you for a long time and you do not get hungry near as quickly as if you had just filled up on vegetables alone. Proeins also boosts your metabolic rate which translates into calorie burning. Eat some chicken, eat some beans, treat yourself to some steak!
  5. Manage Stress
    This is the most difficult of all. Stress comes in many forms. Family issues, work issues, personal, and even national. Many of us handle this by eating. Its a normal response, but its one that has to be controlled, especially when you have chosen to lead a healthier lifestyle. Make sure your snacks are healthy, stay within your portion size, and if you are intermittent fasting, do not stray outside of your eating hours.
  6. Avoid Alcohol.
    During the holiday season. Okay, it is sound advice, after all, alcohol packs a lot of calories, it loosens inhibitions which may lead you to overindulging, and it can suppress fat burning. I personally found that with the weight-loss, I also have no idea what my alcohol tolerance is. If you do drink, limit yourself to one or two and switch out to water.
  7. Eat more fiber.
    Perfect time of the year for the hot cereals like Oatmeal and Cream of Wheat. There are many other sources of fiber as well. Chickpeas, barley, broccoli, and kidney beans just to name a few. The fiber fills you up and helps with your digestive track.
  8. Drink water, coffee, or tea
    If you are intermittent fasting, you are already doing this. Remember to avoid the creamers and sugars – this includes the fun flavored black coffees. Stick with Columbian Roasts or Jamacian Blends. Green teas are particular good to drink but don’t shy away from the black teas, they are just as tasty. Water is always your first option. Its fine to drink seltzer water, but check the calories on the can first. I’ve found that some companies produce both water without sweeteners and no calories, and they also produce water that has sweetener and run anywhere from 5 to 10 calories a serving. If its sweet and has a calorie, its going to break your fast.
  9. Get plenty of sleep
    This is difficult. Time change messes with your biorhythm to start you off. Then there are the fluctuating temperatures that cause sinus issues and often difficulting breathing at night. The cold virus can run you down quick. Set yourself a bedtime just like you had to do when you were a kid, and stick to it. If possible, take a nap during the day, but no longer than an hour. Have a cup of Chamomile tea before bed to relax you, or a nice warm bath. Stay off of your social media an hour before bedtime to avoid stimulating your senses.
  10. The scale is a dirty liar
    One morning it tells you that you’ve lost 3lbs.; the next day it tells you you’ve gained 5lbs. It is not a reliable source of information when it comes to your weight loss. The way your clothes are fitting is a good indicator. The way people respond to you, the compliments you get, your overall attitude… all good signs that you are on the right path. The scale is just a tool and should only be brought out once a week as a guideline.

Don’t feel guilty about what has lead you to this point. Brush yourself off and go forward. All is not lost, you merely stumbled in the road. YOU GOT THIS!

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Winter Foraging

Posted on by HeatherLynn

The days of Winter will soon be upon us and with it comes the days of naturally reaching for those foods that make us feel all warm and cozy. Who wants a salad when there’s chili and beef stew?? I liken us to bears this time of year; we forage like we will be scarce of food for several months. Honestly, I’m sure with a bit of research we’d find that its hard coded in our DNA to behave in this fashion!
However, we are not bears and we do have access to food more readily than our forefathers did. It is for these reason that we have every opportunity to stay on track during the colder months.

  1. Keep adding protein to your diet! Beans and beef are in chili, so there’s protein there! I never said chili was bad; I am saying that like all things, you must practice portion control and mindful eating. A high-protein diet can make you feel fuller, boost your metabolism, and reduce your appetite.
  2. Those whole, single-ingredient foods should be a priority. To clarify, Whole Foods are either not processed or minimally processed. The list includes fresh fruits and vegetables, whole grains (oats, brown rice and barley), nuts, beans, fish, and eggs. Devouring these types of foods is associated with a lower risk of cancer, type 2 diabetes, heart disease and stroke.
    The are naturally very filling and provides your body with the essential nutrients it needs to function properly.
  3. Go easy on the processed foods. Frozen meals (yes, the frozen pot pies that are easy and delicious), boxed products, and canned items. Generally, these have the least amount of healthy ingredients and the higher number of calories, fat, salt and added sugars.
  4. Fast-Food. Limit it to once a week if you absolutely cannot live without it. In all truth, its better to skip it all together, there is very little healthy about fast food and the cost is ridiculous.
  5. Watch your sauces and dips and dressings! Those little amounts make a difference! Take the time to measure them out if you are uncertain about how much you are using. I was surprised to find that 2 tablespoons of dressing was more than enough for my salads.
  6. Practice Mindful eating like your life depends on it! ( sort of does ). These months are filled with food that is comforting. Foods that are comforting are filled with calories, starches, sugars, salts and the sense of… comfort!
  7. Don’t forget to throw in some exercise. Instead of sitting down when you get home from work, immediately do something that is active. Walking the dog, talk a walk, do a dance session with YouTube video, go to the gym, catch up on some cleaning… Just donate at least 30 minutes of your day to movement.
  8. As always, drink that water! Its not as easy in the colder months, but it still has to happen. Aim for at least four tall glasses a day. I know the recommendation is higher, but we do baby steps in my world!
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Holiday Food Season is Upon us!

Posted on by HeatherLynn

As the days grow shorter and we pull our jackets out for those cooler Autumn mornings, there is a hint of something in the air.   Festival season!   In Southwest Missouri there are plenty of them to see, from Chief Sarcoxie Days, Apple-Butter Making Days and the Maple Leaf Days, just to name a few.  With them come the temptations of carnival treats. We’re talking about corndogs, funnel cakes, homemade pies, pulled pork and the list just goes on and on.   

Not only does this time of year bring the festivals, it brings us the holidays and all the mouth-watering temptations that go with them.  Halloween treats, Thanksgiving delectables, and we must never forget the wide variety of Christmas sugary goodness that will pass our way.   

In essence, this time of year is a true test of will power and self-control.   I am never going to stand on a soap box and preach at you to avoid all those things.  You shouldn’t.  You should have some of the good things in life, but you need to practice control and the art of saying, “Just a small piece”. 

Its never easy.  No matter how well you have been doing, you’re core memories will remind you how great everything is and make you want it even more.   BE STRONG!  

Stick to your meal schedule.  It’s been working for you and deviating from it will spell disaster no matter what kind of promise you make to yourself.  “I’ll just fast an extra hour tomorrow.”  No, you won’t.   You say you will, but tomorrow comes and you want to stay in your rigid schedule.     Make sure your meal is balanced and nutritious.   Keep track of the extra bites you take during your eating hour; they still count as calories even if its only one bite.

Get your sleep.  That seems to be the advice I read all the time, and I know its easier said than done. Holidays bring a lot of extra worry and stress.  Do your best to relax and slip an afternoon nap in here and there if possible.  Set your bedtime to an hour earlier if you have any way possible, those nights of binge-watching can be put on hold.  Try to stay off your phone an hour before bedtime, its said that those happy little devices are stimulating and distracting, not in the least bit relaxing.  I must admit, I have been lured into the dark abyss of videos more than once and forgone the hour of sleep that would have made a difference to my day.

Make sure you are still moving.  Its easier to get less stringent about your exercise as it gets cooler outside and the idea of snuggling up on the couch wrapped in a blanket, balancing a cup of hot cocoa and watching movies sounds divine, now is not the time to slow down.   The heat of the summer is gone and the fresh air outside is invigorating!  Weather permitting, park a bit further from the door when you go shopping, take the stairs instead of the elevator, go for a nice walk in the park, rake some leaves.  I just started playing golf and by no means is this a sport that is non-physical!  I have pulled muscles I didn’t even realize were there!

Choose satisfying and healthy snacks.   A bag of chips is not going to do the trick.  Instead go for an apple and a slice of cheddar cheese, frozen grapes, some trail mix.   Keep it healthy and fulfilling.  Yes, you’ll have a cookie or a piece of candy, but those should not be your primary snacks!  You’ll have to watch those “treats” with caution.   Instead of a full cookie, take a half.   Someone brought pie to the table.   You can be okay with ¼ slice and not throw your whole day to ruins.

Don’t be afraid of offending your family and friends if you don’t eat their creations for the family holiday meals and don’t allow them to enable you.    What do I mean by this?    These are the people who should be on your fighting side, supporting your decision to lead a healthier lifestyle.  Choosing to pass on the heavier calorie-laden dishes should not lead to an all-out guilt trip.    Telling you “Just one bite won’t hurt.”  Is not supporting your cause.  It is enabling you to fall back on your old unhealthy habits.    Be firm in your convictions.    Not saying you cannot have those things,  if you want them, have them with some control, but do not let the idea of hurting your Aunt’s feelings because you won’t eat her deep-fried butter on a stick, be the reason you lose control.

Holidays are certainly challenging, but you can do this!  

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Getting Back on Track

Posted on by HeatherLynn

Autumn is a great time of the year… it is also the marker for when I tend to struggle the hardest with my ability to stay focused on my journey.   There are Fall Festivals everywhere, and at those festivals you will find loads of yummy-not-good-healthy-choice foods.   I’m weak when it comes to corndogs, funnel cakes and cotton candy.  
There’s also this instinctive nature of mine to start foraging and stocking up for the coming colder months.  Like a bear, I want to start eating the heavier calorie dense foods to sustain me.    Squash and rice are great, but they must be taken in smaller portions than my cravings want.   Topping the list of things are my weekend excursions to see family.   No matter how well I plan, no matter how good my intentions, when I am around family I tend to relax more, and I eat more in the name of “having some fun” as well as imbibing in the alcoholic beverage.   

Add these things up and you have a girl who is struggling to stay on track.  This journey is only 20% diet, 10% exercise and, I daresay, 70% mental.   You must dig deep and find that self-control.  I look in the mirror and now I have a bit of stress that if I fall too far, I will reverse everything I have accomplished.   I can come up with numerous reasons why I am struggling, but let’s be honest, that is all they really are.   Justifying my inability to have a little self-control. 

To get back on track, I have set a loose plan. 

#1 – Remove the 3 bags of candies I purchased on a whim and take them anywhere but where I can get to them.   It was a stupid impulse purchase and knowing they are there is detrimental to me.

#2 – Remind myself that one year ago I was just starting out and was able to do this.  Get back in that mindset by setting up some prepared meals and drinking more water.

#3 – Stick to my Fasting hours like it is a life-or-death decision.   If I convince myself that breaking the fast will hurt me physically, that will help.   (you would be surprised how easy it is to convince yourself of things)

#4 – KEEP BUSY physically.    When I’m busy with things that require lots of movement of my body, I tend to forget about food.   The idea here is that I’m not bored and I’m getting exercise.

#5- Go play Golf.   I just bought a used set of clubs.   I don’t know how to play golf well; in fact, I am terrible at it.   Its excellent exercise and I’ll be outside on a course well away from temptations. 

Of course I will continue my rules of Intermittent Fasting, more protein, less carbs.   I will also attempt my first dip into the pool of Prolonged Fasting, perhaps just a 24 hour fast to get a feel for it. 

Regardless of what I do, the important thing is that I am being proactive and not just letting my old habits slide in and take over.   That person no longer exists. 

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Prolonged Fasting – the 24 Hour Fast

Posted on by HeatherLynn

Prolonged/Extended Fasting varies, but typically it will span a period of 24 hours to a week.  If you are doing the 24 hours fast, you should allow a day or two of rest between the Prolonged Fasting periods. 

During the fasting time, the body transitions from using glucose as a primary energy source to the state of ketosis, the burning of stored fats.

One of the key benefits of Prolonged Fasting is the promotion of autophagy.  This is the body’s process of removing damaged cells and generating new ones.  It is also believed to stimulate stem cell production The process is essential for maintaining cellular health and preventing diseases. The increase in cellular cleanup activities also is beneficial for anti-aging. 

Other benefits include a reduction in inflammation, improved cardiovascular health, lower risk of insulin resistance, better blood sugar control, improve cholesterol and triglycerides levels, fat loss and weight loss.

What to eat Before and After the 24-Hour Fast:

To promote the ketosis and stem cell health, you should choose nourishing, nutrient-dense whole foods.   Fatty meats, bone broth, organ meats, full-fat cheese, and low-carb vegetables.  

Doing a 24 hour Fast:

A 24 hour fast typically will begin at sundown on the first day and will end at the same time the following day.  However, you are free to choose your start time to fit your own schedule.     It is important to note that linking your fasting period with circadian rhythms will work well with the metabolic processes in your body that are governed by natural light and dark cycles.   This is the reason most will choose the Sundown start time.

Obviously, you cannot eat food, candy, etc. while on the fast, but you can have beverages.  The choices are limited to water, mineral water, seltzer water, black coffee, or tea.    NO SODA

As an Intermittent Faster, you are familiar with at the 16–18-hour mark being the time that you would “break the fast”.  This will be your rough patch, but keeping physically active and busy will help you overcome the hump.   

After restricting your calories for 12-36 hours your body begins breaking down fatty acids into energy molecules called ketones.   That’s what they are all talking about when they say “State of Ketosis”.   As you hit your 16-hour mark, your body activates a process of cellular repair called the autophagy.   Not only is autophagy taking away the damaged and old cells, but it is also removing infectious and toxic bacteria and viruses.     This is most likely the reason you are not willing to eat when you have a stomach virus, your body is forcing its only self-repair mode.

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The Art of Fat Shaming

Posted on by HeatherLynn

                 When I was a kid, our family physician described me as a “Meat and Potatoes” kind of girl, to my mother.  

As a teen, I had a guy tell me that if I did a few lines of cocaine, I could lose the weight and be pretty, and a classmate who often reference me as “elephant” as she passed me in the halls.

  As a young adult, I came out of the grocery store to find advertisements on the windshield of my car for a weight loss clinic and well-meaning friends, strangers and colleagues sharing unsolicited weight loss tips with me.

These are only a few examples of the fat-shaming I have personally experienced.   There are countless others, so many that it’s become more like a white noise in the background of my life.   I am not the first to be victimized by this type of “well-intended” advice that hovers on the precipice of bullying.    Fat-shaming has been around for decades.

Fat shaming is the practice of making a person feeling inferior, anxious, guilty or embarrassed about their body shape or size.   The thought process behind this act is the belief that it will inspire and motivate people to lose weight and live a healthier lifestyle.  When in fact, it does quite the opposite in most cases.   

There is no positive effect that comes out of such bullying and discrimination that hides in the form of fat shaming.   Often, it discourages action such as exercising or joining a weight-loss clinic in fear of judgement from others.   It makes the recipient feel bad about themselves and discourages them from being a part of the world around them because they have been targeted as being “not right”.  

Low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, eating disorders and suicide are all mental health issues that are put more at risk when the weight stigma is applied.    I wish I could tell you it was always outsiders doing this, but sadly it is not.  Family members, the people you are supposed to love and trust unconditionally, will sometimes have the strongest effect of anti-fat bias.   They are connected to you, so they don’t hold back or sugar-coat it as they would with a friend or a stranger.  Their words seem to hurt more.   There is one that is above all, your worse fat-shame bully. You.    The things you say about yourself to others, how you make fun of yourself or put yourself down.   All this negative commentary is the worst kind of Fat Shaming. 

The social stigma of obesity is a sort of silent fat shaming.   Instead of being spoken out loud for all to hear, its more implied through actions.   The weight stigma of an obese person being lazy, unintelligent, lack of willpower, unmotivated and incompetent, is present in many levels of employment.  This includes healthcare, education, politics and multiple media forms.   

An example of this silent bias is your Healthcare professionals.  It has been reported that if you have a larger body mass index (BMI) doctors tend to spend less time with you, give you less health education, seem less respectful, use harsh language to describe your body.    Fortunately, I have never experienced this.  Every doctor I have encountered has given me good sound advice and has not blamed my every health problem on my weight.    Nor have I been passed up for promotions (that I am aware of), and I have certainly never been let go from a job for my weight.  But it does happen to people, it’s not a story being made up.  

You cannot expect the world to change their opinion.  They will think what they want to think. You can make people aware of their bullying, “Fat-Shaming”,  even though it may be well-intended.   Call them out on the behavior, you are not less than a person because you are carrying some extra weight.   

You can learn to stop being your own bully.  Teach yourself to stop the negative self-talk.  You are not a joke; you shouldn’t be making jokes on your own behalf.   You should be shouting out your good qualities.   

  Stop pointing out everything you believe is wrong with yourself.   You can hear yourself talking, do you like hearing that?  No.   Start talking about the things you love, stop focusing on your body.  Your body is only a part of who you are as a person.

Learn to form a friendship with food rather than be in a hostage situation.  Food doesn’t own you.    If you want to lose weight, you need food to be on your side.   

Some things said to you will stay in your memory forever.   Like the examples I shared at the beginning of this piece.   Moments in time that meant nothing to the deliverer but impacted me for a lifetime.   I could let them define me or let them simply be a part of the story that created the woman I am today.    I still feel judged at times when I am out in public.  I don’t know if its really happening, after all most people are too absorbed in their own world to worry about what I’m doing.  I know my feelings are my own insecurities.   Those do not magically go away, but I have learned how to gracefully stop those who want to give me friendly “weight-loss” advice I haven’t asked for.  

“Oh, thank you so much!  Is that what you’re doing to lose weight too?”   This statement will shock the slender, fitter folks wanting to “help” and it will generally quiet them as well.

Here are a few articles you may find of interest :

Morbidly obese, perpetually hungry and unapologetically in love with myself (msn.com)

The Harmful Effects of Fat Shaming (healthline.com)

Effects of fat shaming on mental and physical health (medicalnewstoday.com)

Fat Phobia, Fat Shaming, Weight Bias: How to Respond (webmd.com)

Body Shaming: The Effects and How to Overcome it – HelpGuide.org

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Practice What You Preach

Posted on by HeatherLynn

My family is very supportive in my health journey as well in other areas of my life when it is necessary. This past weekend I needed a ride to the grocery store due to my vehicle not being available. (That’s another story for another time). My “rock” of a sister-in-law, *Rachel, volunteered to chauffer me. As we walked through the aisles, she joked that my cart looked much like her own would. Filled with veggies and fruits for our chickens and a small section of similar items for ourselves. We stuck to the perimeter of the store and spent the bulk of our time in produce. I could say that I was shopping to impress her how healthy I did my shopping, but the truth is, it was no different than if I were alone. It is pure instinct now to avoid those inner aisles where the temptations of sugar, high calories and processed foods lie in wait.
It is also extremely helpful that I jot down what I know I’ll need before I go. Since I am purchasing fresh fruits and vegetables, I know not to buy large quantities. These things do not have a long shelf life. Writing things down helps me keep track of what I need and keeps me from the impulse purchasing. I admit, my eyes tend to light up at the sight of fresh and colorful fruits and vegetables and in the past, I’ve overbought and ended up feeding to the poultry or compost pile. Since these items are usually a little higher priced than the preservative filled yummies on the inner aisles, keeping to your list is a bit more budget friendly.
During the week I usually peruse different recipes that look enticing. I judge how difficult they appear to create, mentally inventory my supplies and add things to the list that will help complete the recipe. Keeping that in mind, I avoid weird and exotic ingredients that cannot be used in other meals that I would ordinarily prepare. Such as black seed oil, or vanilla beans. Whenever I purchase ingredients, I tend to have leftover, so I want to be able to use that in other meals. I tend to stick to the quick prep simple meals since I’m cooking for one most days. I try at least one new dish a month so I may keep upping the ante and the variety of items I consume, thus alleviating any boredom with my eating habits.
When I do sit down to eat, I always have my portion plate on hand. I have a stack of dinner plates in the cabinet that haven’t been used in forever. I know I should box them up, but I have not quite pulled the trigger on that yet. (Note to self: remove all plates bigger than dessert sized) . Having the portion plate right there keeps me focused on my portions and though there are days I do overdo it, most of the time I keep within those little portion sections. I have also found that after I serve my portions to my plate, if I put away any leftover food immediately, I will not return for seconds. If I don’t put it away, my chances of a return multiply.
Things to be mindful of on your journey to a healthier new you…

  1. Be honest with yourself
  2. Do your research
  3. Practice what you preach
  4. Don’t say one thing and then do another
  5. Don’t expect others to do what you wouldn’t do

We all stray from the course for our given reasons. It’s because we are human, and we have human feelings and responses to the world around us. Its important to acknowledge that you stray and make a point of getting right back on the journey. A little stray does not mean you are lost, it just means you are having an off day. Make a mantra in your head, “I will lead by example, practice what I preach.”

You have the power to overcome the obstacles, brush off the dirt, laugh atyour stumble and vow to do better

*names have been changed

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Control of the Portions

Posted on by HeatherLynn

For the past 2 years I’ve been adamantly working on my perception of how much food is on my plate and how hungry I really am.   I was raised in a “Clean your plate” home and this has been a troublesome journey to say the least.   I learned quickly that my plates were too big and so I thought I wasn’t putting enough food on them.   I loved the plates, but the fact is I couldn’t make myself take smaller portions because it seemed like there was too much “white” space on my plate.  

I did some research and then made some changes in my life. Here are a few of the things I discovered:

Use smaller dinnerware – dessert plates will work but if you want a little more assistance, these portion control plates on Amazon.com work great!  Portion Control

Don’t eat directly from the package – it is far too easy to lose track of how much you have eaten.  Instead look at the suggested serving size and take the time to measure it out and then put that package away. 

Use a Food Diary – there are literally dozens of apps and websites available that offer the ability to log your food intake.  MyFitnessPal.com is a popular one amidst my circle of friends.   Logging your daily intake of food gives you a visual of how much you are truly eating, and it helps you stop the “oh just one won’t hurt” kind of mentality.

Understand your serving sizes – a serving size is what is listed on the package label; a portion is what you put on your plate.   Serving sizes vary from product to product and they have grown larger in the past few decades.

Use a portion size guide –   there are many out there.  You can use the hand method where your portions are compared to how much you hold in your hand; or use one that compares the portions to different objects.   I prefer the object method for myself.  I’ve printed one guide out  WebMD Portion Size Guide and pinned it to my kitchen cabinet so its easy to see as I’m preparing my meals.

Careful with the Carbs!  –  your plate should only be ¼ carbs.  Whole grains are good for your heart, but those yams, potatoes and corn are high in starch and not so friendly to the fat burning process. You can still have them, but you need to be careful on the portion. 

Go heavy on your fruits and veggies – These are going to be the bulk of your plate.  Try to avoid the canned variety and stick with fresh if possible.  There are many guides on the internet that can help you determine the portion sizes of fresh produce.

Avoid processed foods – do your best.  Fried food is not good for us no matter how yummy it tastes!  Fast food is quite expensive and portion controlling fast food is a nightmare; Avoiding the fast-food places is a good practice but if you do go, most have websites that have serving sizes and calorie counts of all their products available.

Restaurants – everyone deserves a night out, but it doesn’t have to derail your progress.   Take container with a lid with you.   Before eating, take at minimum, half of your meal and stow it away for another meal later.    It is not against the rules unless you go to a buffet.  Don’t do that at a buffet, they will charge you for that.

Meal Prep – some people like to prep for a week. Others are time constrained and prepping for a week of meals is out of the question.   When you make your evening meal, make enough to save for a meal for the following day.    Have a to-go container on your counter and as you are portioning out your plate, portion out a meal into the container as well.   Stick it in the refrigerator and in the morning, it is ready for you to grab and take to work for your mid-day meal.   No extra work involved.

Honestly, you’ll cheat somedays.  You’ll throw your hands in the air and just binge like there ‘s no tomorrow, but I promise, you won’t feel good.   You will for the moment, but your body will let you know that it doesn’t like it.   

Like Intermittent Fasting, portion control is a lifestyle change and it will take time to adjust and form the new habit.   Don’t be hard on yourself if you fall now and then.  Just get back up and keep trying. 

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Why I’m doing the Intermittent Fast

Posted on by HeatherLynn

                 I didn’t begin my journey with Intermittent Fasting on a whim.   I had heard about it years ago and brushed it off as an impossibility for myself.   Go without food for hours at a time? The very thought was daunting! 

                Fast Forward to the year coming out of the pandemic.   Many of us emerged a little heavier than when we went in.  Mercifully, I had maintained my svelte 300 lbs. of course it wavered between 290 and 300 but let’s call it what it is, shall we?   I looked no better, I looked no worse, but I certainly felt worse.   Lugging around that much weight can be very tiresome.    Imagine my skepticism when I started hearing about the drug for diabetes and how it was helping people lose weight.  Then they introduced a Semaglutide targeted for people who were obese and had health conditions such as high blood pressure and dangers of being diabetic.  Bonus!  I fit those categories!  My doctor didn’t even hesitate when I asked if I could give it a try, just typed up the prescription on his tablet and voila!  

                 Apparently, I wasn’t the only one reading the news.   There was, and possibly still is, a huge shortage for the first dose of the shot.   I waited a year and never did get it.   My prescription is still sitting in my cart as “pending” for my pharmacy last time I checked.   

After that initial first few months I started listening to my brother and how he was having success with his Intermittent Fasting.   I chose to try portion control and walking 10,000 steps a day.   He lost 2-3 pounds a week, I lost track of the number of times I felt disappointment when the scale wouldn’t move for me.    My brother encouraged me to try his method, rather than wait on a “miracle drug” that might only work for a short time, after all, there had been reports that many had plateaued while using it.   He said, “Why are you waiting, just forget the drugs and try this. If it doesn’t work, then you can do your own thing.” 

I must admit, he was convincing.  He was giving me an out if I needed it and all he was asking is that I give the fasting a fair shot.    That was last September.   

I began my journey with hesitance at 295 lbs.

It is now July; I am still on the journey, and it has become more of a habit now.   When I weighed in this morning, I was at 223.4 lbs.  

71.6 lbs. in ten months.  

                 Originally my goal weight was 175 lbs., however after doing some research, I may drop that down to 165 lbs. as that is more ideal for my height and body structure.

                 I have exactly one year to accomplish this.  At the end of that year, I intend on taking a cruise with my family.   In my head I am calling it my “Victory Celebration Cruise” to celebrate how far this journey has taken me.  

                 I know I can do this!  

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