Learning to Redress Yourself

At one point in the past, I was pushing past 400lb. mark on the scale, which meant that my clothing was not only plus-sized, but it was also super-plus-sized to accommodate the extra bulges.     I have wardrobe of clothing which reflects this very fact.    This brings me to the dilemma I now face.

My clothing is no longer suitable for the body I have now.    I’ve dropped a significant amount of weight and gone down several sizes.  This equals out to every piece of clothing I own looking baggy and unkempt when I put it on.  Shirts fall off my shoulders, pants constantly slip from my hips.  What continues to surprise me is when I pull a shirt from the realms of the dresser.  Those dark depths contain the shirts I liked but they were simply not big enough for me and I was unwilling to toss them.   I put them on now and they drape across me like a hastily hung blanket in the window.   It’s a refreshing surprise and one I am secretly loving every time it happens.     Motivation comes in all forms!

However, I had no choice but to return to the stores to rebuild a new wardrobe.

It started about four months ago, my rebuilding phase.  I held it off until then, knowing that I was still on my journey and numbers and sizes can still change.   I was clueless on my size at this point, so I decided a trip to Lane Bryant for new undergarments would be my first stop.   The ladies there took my measurements and let me know that I had indeed lost inches around the waistline, but my chest stubbornly remained the same robust size it had been for years.     With this information, I went to the local Walmart and bought a pair of inexpensive jeans, and I hit up Amazon for a few t-shirts.   It was summertime and those were the basic items that could get me by.   

What I am learning as I continue my journey is this, when it comes to your wardrobe:

1. Assess your current wardrobe. Put aside all clothing you know is way too big on you now.  Donate it or sell it.  Get it out of the house and make it so it is no longer an option.  We don’t save the close in case we get big again.  We are NOT going back.     Personally, I am hanging on to my jackets and hoodies, and a few heavier shirts for the Winter so I can layer properly.   

2. Choose correctly sized undergarments. I’m sure there is a scientific reason to do this, but I say do it because its far more comfortable.   Saggy underwear is uncomfortable and feels weird, a bra that is too big will make your shirts look lumpy.   Besides, new undergarments always make you feel good.

3. Grab essentials and staple pieces. Get a few things that will get you by.  A couple pairs of jeans, a few t-shirts, a nice dress shirt or two.   You’re still on your journey and clothing costs no matter what size you are.

4.  Look for sales.  Especially this time of the year.   Frequent the thrift shops and the discount stores.  You do not need to be spending hard earned money on clothing that is only going to be used for your transitioning period.   

5. Congratulate yourself for a job well done, but don’t stop moving, this is now your life!